Is it ok to have preferences?

I am not attracted to the people local to my area, they seem uninteresting.

Yesterday I went to my local supermarket and saw a young lady working there, she was tall, slim with lovely brown hair and, helping an elderly customer, spoke with an accent that was perhaps American or Canadian, I don't know.

I also like the idols I see in music videos and entertainment videos they feature in showing their talent, personality and unique looks.

Once in a while I spot a girl wearing a pretty outfit that catches my eye.

To me they are a breath of fresh air compared to the local people who I find not interesting and run of the mill, no offence intended.

Regarding the title I often prefer women with black or brown hair and brown eyes with a slim or average build not covered in tattoos like most people in my town.  I value personality most of all.

Sorry for rambling I am battling heartburn right now and can't sleep.

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  • Everyone has some preferences I don’t know why wouldn’t that be ok. I also don’t like tattoos. For me the looks was always less important, i mean hair, eye or skin color. I always liked someone who has “this something” this magic, usually I liked someone whom my female peers found unattractive. 
    i understand that local people may be boring, because you see them everyday and most of them follow some trend, like for example the tattoos. Where I live also many people have them, even on their whole bodies and faces. I would have been probably scared to date someone like this, it’s just my preference. I have a right to have it. 

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  • Everyone has some preferences I don’t know why wouldn’t that be ok. I also don’t like tattoos. For me the looks was always less important, i mean hair, eye or skin color. I always liked someone who has “this something” this magic, usually I liked someone whom my female peers found unattractive. 
    i understand that local people may be boring, because you see them everyday and most of them follow some trend, like for example the tattoos. Where I live also many people have them, even on their whole bodies and faces. I would have been probably scared to date someone like this, it’s just my preference. I have a right to have it. 

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