Published on 12, July, 2020
Me (in order of importance):
1. Animals (excluding humans).
2. Nature (especially trees).
3. People who are (I can't think of the correct word) : disenfranchised, marginalised, vulnerable, different, 'outsiders', come to mind.
4. Some of the rest of human society.
What about you?
That's neat.
I used to find all those faces overwhelming.
I love nature too, so calming!
Good question
If I carried on the list might include some of the rest of human society eventually...
Definitely other autistics on such a deep level. I feel a magnetic connection to my neurokin, I felt this before I even knew I was autistic. I can connect with other autistics in a way that is not possible with other neurotypes (you just ‘get it’) and that feels beautiful and so meaningful.
People who are (I can't think of the correct word) : disenfranchised, marginalised, vulnerable, different, 'outsiders', come to mind.
I also agree with this, I definitely feel I can connect with these people because they are often misunderstood like we as an autistic community are.
I also feel like I can relate to non speaking people/ anyone who experiences communication differences regardless of reason because I understand how difficult/frustrating it can be to not be able to get your message across easily/be misunderstood.
To some extent I feel like I can relate to non speaking autistics with apraxia on a deep level because sometimes they seem to be more authentically autistic (no masking) and free. I love this it is beautiful! I would be great in a hypothetical world if the majority of our community were safe enough to be authentically autistic too.
Thanks for starting such a great discussion!
Your expansion on number three: I can relate. Authenticity and individuality are so crucial to me in terms of who I can connect with and trust.
Introverts, the socially (and generally) anxious, people who get hurt easily. Hermits United!
Debbie,
1. Animals (excluding humans). Definitely but I'm highly allergic. :-(
2. Nature (especially trees). Same as well as my wee plants I have in my flat which have names.
3. People who are (I can't think of the correct word) : disenfranchised, marginalised, vulnerable, different, 'outsiders', come to mind. I'd say it's more people who are "real" who I feel instantly connected with. I used to make friends with the bullied people are school because I wanted to stick up for them and I hated that they would be hurting inside. I now know that the bullies were probably feelings that way too....
4. Some of the rest of human society. This is the case here where I can cry when reading of others trauma because I've been there too in most cases.