Published on 12, July, 2020
I don't know where else to turn.
Had a therapy appointment yesterday, GP appointment tomorrow. I'm really hurting, but I can't tell anyone. The "S" word has consequences. I just can't say it, I cant cope with what might happen I'f I do.
It's ok, I don't expect any replies, I'm not after attention. I just needed somewhere I could be honest with myself.
Sorry.
*Thank you so much everyone for your kindness, you are all truly amazing people.
You're right Adele M, he's very intelligent and highly manipulative. I feeling so vulnerable I completely fell for it.
I don't want to sound mean about your son - but I don't want you to blame yourself either
How was he wanting to be noticed if he was sneaking about and doing things when you weren't there? Sounds like an excuse to me - don't let him blame you for it - explain that you are doing your best and that he needs to take responsibility for his actions.
It doesn't matter aidie
The game was violent. Doll Mutilation 2, and he was only with my sister when he stole. We had a talk, it turns out that he just wanted to be noticed. Basically his mum is a complete waste of space.
What type of inappropriate? Violent or rude - or a bit of both? - probably more curiosity than being naughty. Was he with others when he stole - kids are awful at egging each other on.
Sneaking downstairs in the middle of the night to take my laptop and play inappropriate games. Today he was caught by my sister stealing from a shop.
No worries if you don't want to talk
It's not your fault that you feel this way.
Do you want to talk about what he has been doing? It might help - most kids get into trouble at times. You can be vague if you like.
And I just found out that my youngest has been getting into trouble recently because his mother is useless. If I felt low before, it's nothing to how I feel now.
Pikl whats your friends name ?
A friend
That's ok x
Sorry, I misread what you said and thought they said you didn't have to do fun things - just ignore me!
who/what upset u Pikl ?
Hey Adele M. I'm really not interested in trying it all, but that is just me. Probably because I went into the session feeling really upset. X
Distraction is good sometimes though - doesn't always have to be fun - can be a bit of housework or something - the crisis team tell me to distract myself when I'm struggling. I'm glad that people are helping you to process the thoughts in a healthy way though, so that you don't need the distraction.
I also have to force myself to do something fun, because it will make me feel better.
yes because i know this stuff works if u can learn it ---- it took me ages to get it right your ass is following my ass