What are your coping mechanisms

I have negative coping mechanisms for dealing with sadness and anxiety:

‘’daydreaming excessively

spending excessive hours on my ipad

staying in bed all day 

positive coping mechanisms:

listening to quiet music’

spending a short amount of time watching tv or on ipad

going to the gym

taking a walk

calling a friend.

what are your coping mechanisms? 

I ‘I really want to start working again but find working so stressful and trying to find out what coping mechanisms might help.

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  • Mine are;

    Drinking tea. I also make tea automatically when other people are upset and feel stressed until I have done so. (apparently I am a walking English stereotype)

    Petting an animal (usually one of my snakes)

    Watching an aquarium or ant farm for a few minutes (I have an ant farm at work on my desk)

    Listening to an audiobook (ideally on a long walk)

    Being in a natural space (in a wood or a park or by a pond)

    Playing a short, relaxing game (lots of free ones online; if you google orisinal games there are loads on there that work well, I like bubble bees and the hatchings and winterbells).

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  • Mine are;

    Drinking tea. I also make tea automatically when other people are upset and feel stressed until I have done so. (apparently I am a walking English stereotype)

    Petting an animal (usually one of my snakes)

    Watching an aquarium or ant farm for a few minutes (I have an ant farm at work on my desk)

    Listening to an audiobook (ideally on a long walk)

    Being in a natural space (in a wood or a park or by a pond)

    Playing a short, relaxing game (lots of free ones online; if you google orisinal games there are loads on there that work well, I like bubble bees and the hatchings and winterbells).

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