Published on 12, July, 2020
“He is wired differently to you and me, this child of mine. He doesn’t like loud noises, or dark spaces, or strangers touching his head”. These are the first lines from a poem a mother penned about her son 11-year-old son who has Asperger’s syndrome.
Sophie Billington goes on to explain how her son Tristan’s brain works differently: “He can see in an instant the pattern, the layout, the solution to a puzzle”, but that “the world judges” and “sees only the outbursts and over-reactions”. It seems the poem struck a chord – going viral after being posted on Facebook.
Although autism is predominantly diagnosed in childhood, increasing numbers of adults are finding out that they too have autism. This issue, of later life diagnosis, was brought to light recently after nature photographer and TV presenter, Chris Packham, went public with his experiences.
About 1% of the adult population has been diagnosed as on the autism spectrum – with more people diagnosed with autism than ever before. And yet, generally, the focus on who has autism is still mostly on infants, children and young adults.
This is despite the fact that autism can be defined as a lifelong neurodevelopmental disorder – characterised by differences in social communication and interaction with people and wider society – making it very much a label for people of all ages.
theconversation.com/how-it-feels-to-be-diagnosed-with-autism-later-in-life-92633
I'm 51 now, and I really wish I'd known that I might have autism a long time ago. It would have explained a lot.
Some days I feel nothing but relief at knowing, but other days I feel sad and angry at the waste of time, energy and effort I put into trying to belong. I don't think autism was even on the radar when I was a child, I was just seen as weird, antisocial and awkward. I think maybe I still am. At least I don't beat myself up about it now.