What led you seek diagnosis?
Still to seek a formal diagnosis but presently self diagnosed.
the epiphany was having everything change over the past couple of years...new job, new relationship, moved house etc and was still not content.....the “problem” was me!
I started seeing patterns and wondered that it might be me and not them!
It’s definitely you! Lol (joke)
Like you, I started to see patterns, then looked at Aspie women’s traits....I printed off Tania Marshall’s checklist and highlighted the areas I identified with.....it would have been quicker to highlight the areas I didn’t? Then an AQ test.......then lots of reading and academic papers, then joining here which sparked even more identification