Hello and welcome to the forum.
The following page has a lot of information pertinent to your enquiry. https://www.autism.org.uk/about/family-life.aspx
This blog is written by a UK Mum of autistic twins. If there is an autism group local to you, it may be an idea to contact them. They may be able to put you in touch with other parents. Talking to other parents of autistic children will at least give you some sort of support network. All the best, Graham.
Thanku, ive reached out to a local group so hopefully will hear from them soon!
I looked through the blog, she's an inspiration! Will keep following!