experience with therapist

hi everyone,

I am very concern the way i am being treated by my specialist as I felt they are forcing to adapt the normal enviroment and i am very traumatizing. I had been hurting myself alot these night with lots of bruises and cant sleep due to the depression.

my specialist had been forcing me to put down my special interest in disney characters, fairy tale and costumed characters and adapt the mainstream enviroment. they even force me to interact with someone I don't like (my peers). My peers loves things like sport and watching television whcih i don't like. 

In my world, i like playing with the children and we play together around my area with toys and dolls. the reason i like interacting with the children because they share interest like me. but my specialist is forcing me not to hang out with them because of age difference eventhought no one mind about it. their parent don't bother about this and no one care about this. but they still force me not to hang out with someone who shares interest like me while interact with someone don't have interest like me. they are doing this to me because of my age and i feel like they are bullying me. 

i am very traumatized but no adult are listening to me as they all are on my specialist side just because this lady is a therapist. if i talk to my parent about it, they will punnish me for not being greatful to my specialist. I have no one on my side. I need help.

I am being forced to adapting an enviroment that i don't like. I am very very traumatized.

Does anyone here is on myside and think it's okay of what i like to be doing as i need help.

reminder i am someone at my very late teen.

Parents Reply

  • Deepthought, why did you say i am discriminate you guys? i am just speaking up for my right and even speaking up for other autistic right. I am not insulting you here, i am scolding the mainstream society for putting pressure on me including age appropriate concept and social norm and especially for not allowed being friends with children just because of my age. why would you say i am insulting someone with a disability. I'm not. like i have autism here so why would i do something bad to someone who i understand what is like to be autistic.

    I'm just scolding my therapist.  I'm definately NOT treating you like slave. so why did you call me discriminating other in this forum, i am just scolding my therapist not you guys with autism. like i am a person who has autism and like helping other with autism so they can be comfort in their way in their world. i also raise awareness for autism and hope people accept autistic difference including allowing them to play with other kids at their grown age and playing with toys and dolls. like this is a forum just for autism, not for mainstream people.


    The discrimination issue has already been explained, but will need explaining again as you have done it again here with this forum not just being for autistic people:

    Purpose

    The purpose of the Community is to provide a safe and supportive forum for people on the autism spectrum, their parents, guardians, family, friends, colleagues, and those working in the field of autism to share experiences, views and opinions.

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    https://www.autism.org.uk/get-involved/about-us/website/site-terms.aspx


    so why cant i raise out my voice to get my right back of dont have to following age apropriate and social norm as an autistic person.

    Your rights like everybody else's rights involve what is appropriate to do by law according to a person's mental and physical ability to do what is befitting for everyone including themselves ~ with the social norm being the societal standards that must be followed as laws by everyone for everyone's safety and provision; equally.
    No one can be excluded from this as it includes everyone as being in some ways similar, and in other ways dissimilar ~ as previously explained regarding organs, flesh and bones as being similar to all, with all the abilities, capacities and interests that make us different.
    Your rights then like everyone else's are not then lost ~ but are either not understood, not comprehended or else are not recognizsed. This has applied to yourself in terms of you not fully understanding, comprehending or recognizing what your rights and other people's rights actually are here and elsewhere.

    so i am just raising my right as freedom of speech. 


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