Difference or Personality?

This is my concern AFTER I get a diagnosis. Just started the process by being referred by my GP, and I worry that after completion they just say to me that I'm an arsehole! Then what?!

This is my concern AFTER I get a diagnosis. Just started the process by being referred by my GP, and I worry that after completion they just say to me that I'm an arsehole! Then what?!

I laughed when i saw your comment, because that's exactly what I thought (me, not you).  I had my assessment, then at the end she said it would take some weeks before I got the result. 

I started to get upset.

She said, "what's wrong?"

I said "what if I have done all this just to find out I'm just a weirdo with annoying habits and a LOSER! And get confirmed it IN WRITING!"

but she said, don't worry, if you come out borderline it will explain all the things that are close to the border and anything across different spectrum traits and it will be done sensitively, eg. noting the severity of anxiety in your daily life. 

In the end I landed squarely in what used to be called Asperger's, with borderline  OCD and PDA.

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