Good afternoon all.
I just wondered what positive steps people took after they were diagnosed as adults. I am still awaiting my (hopefully) final appointment next week and am going through a rollercoaster of emotions such as: it won't change who I am, it won't make a difference to those that know me, will I grieve for the situations I found troublesome growing up etc etc.
I guess I am asking:
Did diagnosis help?
Did things start to make sense?
Did you do things differently as you were more aware?
and what are people's experience with telling work colleagues? I am of the mind not to at the moment, as I don't necessarily need anything to change there.
First, I am still self-diagnosed as Asperger’s syndrome.
When I was attending a four year college, I was not able to finish this one test. I told the professor that I wasn’t able to finish the test when I turned it in. She told me I should find out if I qualify for my time.
I went through the process and the psychologist did figure out that I do have a processing deficiency. His results created an accommodation at the college I was attending. The additional testing time helped me tremendously because I got to showcase my test taking skills when it mattered most. I ended up graduating with my bachelors degree *** Laude.
I do look back and realize 10 years of my life was wasted because I didn’t get that accommodation for my standardized test during my junior year of high school. I ended up studying the subject I wanted to study right of college too.
I have received a lot of help for my Asperger’s syndrome. It hasn’t changed that I will obsess though. It hasn’t changed who I am.
Dfactor said:bachelors degree *** Laude.
Come on, mods. C u m is a Latin term, translating into English as 'and'. How daft is it to censor that, because of a misspelling in pornography?
There's a town in Austria called F**k. Am I not allowed to say I've been there? Please, just drop this daft censorship and treat us like intelligent adults.
It may not have been a mod. I suspect it was an algorithm programmed with the word and which automatically deleted your comment. It's absurd for a word which has more than one context.
Right w/you. Apparently the algorithms or mods believe I must be ashamed to say I have *** CANCER - you know, the cancer in which the BREASTS I once used to feed my children were removed, exactly as my words are removed from my posts. Not a great or reasonable or remotely compassionate delete. No *** LAUDE for these inexplicable & judgemental deletes!
Good job you don't live in Scunthorpe.
Yes, as Hathor said, it's just an automatic text filter; the deletions show up even when you do a preview from the "tools" menu, so the deleted text would never be seen by the mod's.
It happened to me a while ago when I was recommending a brass band to someone. They are world-renowned award winners, well known among brass music fans, but happen to be the traditional mill band from the old woollen mills at Black D-y-k-e in Queensbury. They have a lot of fun trying to convince people that their name isn't a racist, homophobic slur when they're arranging tours!