By partner has recently been diagnoised with apergers and in many ways we are both struggling. Any help or advice would be welcomed.
Hi, Since you already have a relationship I guess you've got through most of the hurdles anyway because that is the hardest thing for someone with aspergers to 'get'.
I work with adults with aspergers and some ASD in the family and the most simple rule is 'If this happened to you, how would you feel'.
Also get him to read up on ' fuzzy logic' (google it).