Okay, so just a little thought experiment to get you clever and creative folks discussing...
Morpheus sits you down and places a small green pill in front of you saying how it will instantly and painlessly 'cure' you of your autism, giving you the neurotypicality you would've had from birth, had things been different.
Do you take the pill?
So that’s a no for you as well DC :-) In AA, they have a little story. They say that if everyone there (at a meeting) were to throw all their problems on to the table in the middle of the room, and you had the choice which ones to take back, everyone would take back their own, yet everyone was sat there thinking they were worse off than the other guys sat around the table. Until they got to choose their problems that is.
That reminds me of an old Southern American Hick type of song I heard many years ago, in a couplet the song mentioned that their dog spent the whole of the day howling in agony because it was sitting on a thorn but was too lazy to get up!