Hi, I've recently - finally - got my Asperger diagnosis, preceded by an ADHD diagnosis. I'm in my 60s, and was misdiagnosed many years ago as bipolar, and had an even earlier label as a (gifted) child of being 'maladjusted'! I've since discovered that many autistic children were given this label, as child psychology was then in its infancy. Other than psychotic or schizophrenic, there were no diagnoses for children's mental health issues. My life has not been easy, and athough this diagnosis has been very welcome and has answered many questions, it's very hard for me to find anybody who can understand me and the difficulties I face. I've tried counselling a couple of times, but found that most professionals know nothing about autism other than basics like binary thinking and so find it hard to understand my (logical) take on everything. It would be great to hear back from anyone else who is in a similar situation, and to know that I'm not alone.
I was going to post about ASC/Asperger's and bipolar. I am in my 50s, was diagnosed with ASC/Asperger's two years ago and today I persuaded a GP to refer me to a psychiatrist to see whether or not I am bipolar. If you had asked me three years ago I would have said I was bipolar instead of autistic but as the GP said I definitely have autistic traits even if I am not autistic. there is also no reason why you cannot be both.
I also understand that there is someone at my local autism hub who has been diagnosed as bipolar but who is convinced he is autistic instead.
So you are not alone.
Thanks for that, Taltunes, much appreciated. I wouldn't object to getting a bi polar diagnosis again, but I've been down that path and know pretty much all the meds and how the side effects were so awful I couldn't continue with them. Other than cognitive therapy, there isn't much else on offer. I know from the past that meditation would help me immensely, once I can relax enough to start again, as have been having a rough time the past year, and stress levels are sky high. I'm thinking of trying CBD oil, do you have any experience with this? It has mixed reviews but many find it excellent for many things, including alleviating anxiety. I get cross with myself sometimes, as I feel I ought to be able to self-heal if only I knew the right formula!
I was mis--diagnosed with bipolar disorder and then a personality disorder before ASD. I never truly felt like the label fitted with those but do with ASD. I've also stopped having MH problems now I truly know who I am. I still take the BP meds though as they knock me out in an evening and I can't sleep naturally. My GP hasn't said anything yet.
Many of the on-line counseling directory's enable you to search for autism specialists. Someone posted on here a few days ago about the difference seeing a specialist compared to a generic counselor made.
Your experience of the counselling profession is unfortunately one I've found too. I was diagnosed a year ago, and then I was shocked to discover there are very few resources out there to support a late-diagnosed adult. I've had Counsellors just focus on talking about my feelings (even the diagnostic Psychiatrist said I was very insightful and was already fully aware of my feelings. Feelings wasn't the issue, but finding more effective strategies). Another Counsellor (by her own admission) didn't know what to do with me - so just sent me to a group workshop on breathing techniques for anxiety! Yet another kept referring to my "learning disability" - even after I pulled her up on it. And, the diagnostic Physiatrist seemed to focus on the belief that getting an active love life would solve all my problems (a very turn-of-the-twentieth century idea, akin to the common belief that a woman getting married and having sexual relations with a man would cure her of her 'hysteria').
It's funny, as thus far I've never come across a medical / mental health professional with autism. Can you imagine if you attended a women's studies lecture that was presented by a man, or a racial awareness rally hosted by a caucasian person, or a trans-awareness advocate that was cis-gendered etc? At the present moment in history, we're being talked at by Neurotypicals who in my experience just have woefully little understanding as to what it's actually like to live with autism (in a neurodivergently-hostile world), whereby the focus of the 'treatment' is either to ignore us, or force us to adopt Neurotypical standards.
Hi Evan, my goodness your experiences resonate! I too had a psychiatrist who told me that I wasn't normal because I didn't want a partner. I've found that psycotherapists and psychiatrists appear to have little self-knowledge and are often mystified by my analyses of situations and people. I've been seeing an NHS therapist but, after today, not sure that it's good to continue. Apart from other things, she doesn't appear to know much psychology: I mentioned somebody I know who was diagnosed with Munchausen's, and I had to explain to her what it was and also Munchausen's by Proxy. She also appears to know little, if anything, about narcisisstic personality disorder.
But you're absolutely right, of course. How on earth can a NT comprehend the machinations of our minds? NTs are not as perceptive, sensitive, attuned, or logical enough. They could actually try a bit harder, of course, as the information is all out there, but I doubt that they can be bothered. I mentioned CBD oil to my psychiatrist and she'd never heard of it. I'd have hoped that professionals would keep up with latest treatment options, but apparently not if they work for the NHS.
Sadly, it appear to be just a job for most of them, not a vocation.