What led you seek diagnosis?
My ex was the catalyst, mentioning things. Then I heard spouses of aspergers on the Jeremy Vine show and it was everything the ex said. Short while after I was advised to get tested for dyslexia, dyspraxia, dyscalculia, ADD and aspergers, I phoned dyslexia helpline and they told me to get tested for aspergers. I did online searches and it was mixed emotions of upset and elation as I found out about it and understood certain things and other things made more sense.